Why am i having bad dreams about being broken up with?

ROBIN LEA asked:


Lately i have been having a lot of bad dreams about me and my boyfriend breaking up or we may not even break up we just argue or get angry with each other.

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Can someone tell me what could be causing these bad dreams? Please?


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28 Responses

  • drugs?

  • woahhhh this happened to me too and sad to say we did break up. hopefully that wont happen to you.

  • YOur dreams are telling you that boy boy is soon to be bye bye.

  • well you are probably just stressed out right now, and a worry is turning into anxiety and bad dreams. Just because you are dreaming about it doesnt mean it will happen or anything, just relax. Everyone argues sometimes, that is healthy. It is probaly just stress

  • Sometimes if you fear something, subconsciously it runs through your mind and ends up as a dream! Take a day off at the spa and relax to get your mind off of things.

  • If u let it bothers u, then you’ll act like u’ll break up and eventually it will happen.
    Just 4get it.

  • You would probably have those dreams if your doubting your relationship.

  • usually u dream what u think about or is confused about in reality that is usually what i dream about like what ur nervouse about

  • Dreams are completely UNRELATED to conscious reality.
    Do not let them interfere with your life or listen to those dumbasses who try to make all these theories based on what happened while you were sleeping.

  • U MIGHT JUST B FEELIN’ SAD OR WORRYING ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH UR BOYFRIEND.

  • i find that dreams normally show what people really think in the back of there minds.

    its like a locked door which you have no key to while ur awake, but while ur sleeping u have the key to it and can see the back of ur mind and what ur innermost thoughts and worrys are.

  • maybe its a sign and u may want to start making your relations ship stronger

  • Usually dreams are because you need to get up and go to the bathroom. Sometimes they can be stuff you worry about or what you ate.

  • Have you been eating lots of sugar? Sugar gives you nightmare. Eating things late at night do, too.

    It could just be random, also. Just because it is in your nightmares doesn’t mean it will come true!

    If you keep having them, it could be trying to tell you something. Or, it could be insecurity.

  • your subconscious mind thinks that there;s something wrong with your relationship… even a small bit but you might be scared. subconsciously

  • HEY!!! truthfully it is a dream, and if you really think it is bad dream than the inevitable will become!!

  • This happens to me with every bf at some point it’s because it’s something you fear in your sub conscious mind so it comes up in your dream.

  • i’m having the same problems.
    i think it could be a number of things
    i recently have had a lot of stress and insecurities about myself and relationship, but sometimes when i am EXTREMELY happy with my relationship i still have these dreams.
    so i’m guessing it could be stress from other things or even lack of sleep/water.

  • Sometimes its a warning.

    Sometimes it’s your subsconscience expressing the feelings you refuse to address when you are awake.

    Are you sensing a change? Ask him if he’s feeling differently about your relationship (not about you) if you aren’t feeling like a break up or break is needed. If he is feeling this way, be mature about it and don’t over react.

  • dreams tell you alot about your feeling, needs, wants, and so much more. check out a dream dictionary online. dreammoods.com

  • It sounds like you’re really starting to care for him and this is on your mind a lot. Maybe you’re a tad insecure and since you’re really developing feelings for him you are afraid that he may leave you for someone else, or you are jealous, but don’t really know it of someone else in his life that is pretty that he talks about or works with or has class with. It could really be a lot of things.

    Hope that helps.

  • are you worried about him breaking up with you? it might just be your subconcious at work dont try to understand it even scientists dont know

  • Most likely your dreams are pointing at a subconscious fear of conflict. Perhaps deep down you are really insecure about your relationship with him and its driving your anxiety levels high enough to manifest through your dreams.

    You could make a dream journal where each morning when you wake up, you write down what you dreamed of that night. It doesn’t matter if you cannot recall all the details. Even a short paragraph is better than nothing.

    But think of your dreams as a metaphor for life. Each dream represents aspects, emotions, desires, interests and conflicts within your life and you as a person. Look at your dreams and eventually you’ll begin to see patterns within them that reflect upon your day to day life.

    When you dream about arguing with your bf, ask yourself how am I like this? What is it about me that has conflict like that? Ultimately your dreams are reflections of yourself only. So what you dream about is about you. Use this as a tool to find answers to what your dreams mean.

  • Don’t worry. Bad dreams (or any dreams for that matter) are just the result of things we’ve seen or thought about while were awake. They have nothing to do about something buried deep in your consciousness or signs of things to come. They don’t really mean anything outside of what we already know, so don’t get caught up in dream journals and Freud.

    My best advice is to think about really calming things before sleep (if you can, I know how hard that can be if you’re stressed about something) and if you have lucid dreams, try to do something else. (lucid dreams are when you can control what you do and see in your dreams). There are a lot of different meditation things that can help you sleep or clear your head.

    Maybe you just need to clear things up in real life, and your dreams will settle down.

  • ur mind is in an unconscious state therefor no boundaries
    wat all that means is that u keep thinking wat might happen so ur dreams are making a scenario of it

  • i have had those dreams about me and my boyfriend since the beginning of our relationship and we have been going out for about a year and are thinking of marriage. i get those dreams when i am stressed about something, so don’t let it bother you and just remember its a dream. :)

  • these dreams are telling you that you need to spend more time with your boyfriend , the dream is trying to tell you that if you don’t spend more time with your boyfriend then the bad dreams will go away trust me i went throught this already this will work trust me plz give me the 10 pts thanks!!

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