hello to who ever is reading this
awhile back now i was coming home from work and i ran into this guy who then would not let me pass to get into my home (i lived in an apartment) he then pushed me up against the wall and started kissing me he smeeled of booze i beged him to stop
and well the rest you can imagine
i finally was able to push him off but i ran into my apartment a closed and locked the door the bad thing was he knew where i was living a couple of days passed and i soon realized that the guy was living next door to me and i see him every day of my life
now i am having nightmares of what happened and everynight i see his face and every night the dream becomes worse
i do not know what to do
he smiles at me in the hall he walks close by and brushes against me
the police can do nothing because there is no evidence
someone pleases give me some good advice
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Move. Easiest way to keep yourself safe. I realize he’s the one causing the problem, but the change of location may solve the whole problem quite simply. Tell your friends and family what is going on so they can help you find a new appt and can check in with you to be sure everything is ok. Also carry around a thing of mace or some other self-defense thing and tell him calmly and firmly to stop his behavior. It’s borderline rape and definitely harrassement. You may be able to have the police issue a restraining order–check into it.
My opinion is to move out and find a better appartment w/o wierdos like that idiot. Try leaving like your usual times for work ,and if he should try to get close to you frst tell him in a civilized way to stop. If all else fails, Kick him in the nuts and leave.